Avoid People Who Undermine Your Self-Trust
The people who undermine your self-trust are the ones who are jealous of your enthusiasm and passion. They give themselves permission to control your pleasure, your success and are the “dream smashers and naysayers.” Keep these individuals at arms-length and do not share important information with them. They may see you as a genuine threat and could sabotage your efforts.
Keep Promises to Yourself
Developing self-trust also includes becoming your own best friend, which includes keeping promises to yourself. You might make a commitment to take a walk every day, go to bed earlier, or visit the gym on a weekly basis. When you commit to your intentions, you are agreeing to stay focus even though it may be difficult. Building habits and working towards your goals takes effort but it’s well worth the energy.
Speak Words of Wisdom and Be Kind to Yourself
When you speak words of wisdom, you are acknowledging you are in control, you have the power to overcome your circumstances and are determined to trust in yourself. These declarations will reinforce the power you have to face all challenges and solve every obstacle in your path. Also, be ready to suppress the inner critic. You do not have to perfect, instead aim to improve, do a course correction and try again.
The purpose of a storyteller is not to tell you how to think, but to give you questions to think upon.” – Brandon Sanderson